Friday, August 28, 2015

Passion Projects

This week we've begun to sketch out ideas for our passion projects. There are so many different ideas about what to do in this classroom that could make a huge impact on our community- and I plan to make mine successful. Of course, that's the plan for all of us, but I truly do believe in the importance of my own that I'm willing to throw all the time I might have into it.

My project is the education of the world about what MOGAI is and what we stand for. I have a firm belief that statistics about how many of us there are are skewed by the simple misinformation and disinformation of so many, even in pro-MOGAI areas. In the Bible Belt where I live and so many other places- even whole countries- all around the world, you can find worst-case scenarios. That's a problem, as I've discussed before, and I aim to fix it, on however large a scale I can.

But Annika, you might say, the world's so big, and your little corner of the Internet can only reach so far.

That might be so, but I believe that the phenomenon that's proved itself effective for so many causes can prove itself again through me and my classmates. Information spreads like wildfire these days- projects, webcomics, blogs like mine, they've all exploded in the past ten years and become massively popular.

This project is something very close to my heart. I identify as under the asexual umbrella- and yes, I do know my specific orientation, but for privacy reasons I don't feel comfortable sharing it- and there are so many people who've been open to learning about what that means, but before I told them they had no idea.

Of course, these people are mostly last-generation adults. My generation of teenagers in America have the massive advantage of the internet. However, there are places that the safe spaces I've found don't reach, and America isn't the only place with MOGAI people- teenagers, children, and adults alike. I want to reach them, however I can, and show them that they aren't alone, that they're not broken, that they are valid as who they are, and no one should ever tell them otherwise.

If I can even change one person's life like that, then I count it as a victory for all the work I'm going to put into this project.

This blog is the beginning of that. I'm boosting its signal through my real-life community, people who I know will support my mission, and already I've begun to realize just how many connections we can make, and the more the better. If I'm to succeed, then I'm going to need a lot of people to help me along, but I've found some in my classroom, in my school, in my home and my church and my city. 

I'm going to pitch this project to my class last week, and I hope that I can sound convincing enough to have my proposal accepted. If that happens, then the real work can start. 

I'm going to love it.

Friday, August 21, 2015

Heartbreak Maps

What breaks my heart is that there are so many people in the world who struggle with acceptance- from family, friends, peers, even themselves. There's so much hatred in this world just because of who someone is. I believe that no matter who someone is, they are worthy of having someone who loves them for who they are, not for a facade they present to the world because they feel they have to.

When someone chooses to come out- whether it be about their romantic, sexual, or gender identity- they place a great amount of trust in whoever they are addressing, because it's almost impossible to know if they're safe. I've heard so many stories about physical, verbal, and sexual abuse, people with no way to support themselves being cut off from anything they know, and "corrective" rape (1). There's no excuse for the sheer amount of hate crimes that happen every day, everywhere.

Of course, in the society I live in, not everyone knows what the prefixes pan-, demi-, a-, akio-, gray-, mean. There's so many different ways for a human being to identify, but I believe in people's ability to learn about their fellow man. There are some who refuse to learn, I'm aware of that, but they're a whole other issue that I'm not sure I want to tackle right now. 

I know that there are people- adults, teens, even kids- who don't fit into the strict gender binary and heteronormativity that's so prevalent globally, but they don't know what they do feel, because they don't know the name for it. Labels can be restricting, but they can also be freeing, because if you don't know what you are or how you feel, then that can just lead to feelings of dissociation and brokenness. If I could tell each and every person in the world that what they feel about who they are is valid, then I would. 

That's what love means.

Love isn't just sex, love isn't just romance. Love is accepting people for who they are and where they come from, no matter what, even if you think their beliefs are wrong. 

There are so many names I've heard people like me call themselves. MOGAI (2), LGBT+, queer, even the word "gay" is becoming an umbrella term. However, when those words are turned to slurs, then there's something wrong. 

I want to change that, in the tiny community around me, in my city, in my country, in the world.

That's what I'm about. What about you?

Some informative links:

1. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Corrective_rape

2. http://thedailyqueer.com/2014/10/19/what-is-mogai/

General list of orientations/identities: 

http://safespacenetwork.tumblr.com/define